Friday, December 18, 2009

Diego Marchi-Thank you for such powerful words!

A friend posted a quote on FaceBook yesterday that I fell in love with:
"In life, we all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an unreachable dream, and an unforgettable love."~Diego Marchi

There is SO much to be said in this simple sentence (well, it's actually not a "simple" sentence grammatically speaking, but ANYWHO)....the thoughts that reel through my mind upon reading these words, such wise words!

I don't think I have an unspeakable secret; off the top of my head, I don't recall anything? But I'm sure something is there!

People always say they never regret, but I cannot believe that! Maybe it's that we choose to get on with life and forget something that we've regretted....but I'm certain everyone has had at least ONE regret in their life!

The unreachable dream is quite common; people set goals all through their life. As a child, we think things are going to be a certain way; we have BIG dreams for our future, not realizing how hard life can actually be. So, as we grow and mature, our tastes and views change. Our dreams change as well. It's allowed! :) My unreachable dream....I wanted so desperately to be an actress. It is clearly an unreachable dream now; time has taken it's toll, and (for me) plastic surgery to look 20 is not an option (or an affordability!).

I call it an unreachable dream, but it wasn't really....I could have pursued it further. I just didn't try. I'm such an optimist that I don't think of what I can't do! Yes, I realize that to some of you, I'm living in a fantasy world. Wayne used to say that to me all the time. I do not's my world, and living with my head WAY up in the clouds has actually allowed me to accomplish some things in my life! I don't understand what "no" means, therefore, I'm willing to fight just a little harder than most!

Here's my favorite part: An UNFORGETTABLE Love:
Well, most of you probably already know....for those few devoted readers I have. ;) I am a rare breed of person. I can, without a doubt, admit that I have found my soul mate. It's not the same as saying that you have found your true love, or that you are in love like you've never been. Knowing that you are with your soul mate, well words just cannot describe the feeling; it's so alien but comforting, like nothing you'll ever know.

I found an instant comfort with Wayne. Barely knowing him, but trusting him so completely left me confused at first. I honestly wanted to shout from the rooftops that I loved him, not having known him but 2 weeks. I wanted to spend every waking moment with him; 15 years later, I still feel these feelings of we've only been dating a few weeks. I'm told that I'm blessed because of this. DON'T think for a second that I take it for granted either!

I cannot breathe when he's not around; I yearn for the warmth of his body as he hugs me. Even when we argue, I cannot be angry with him (well, maybe for a few minutes, but never for long). He is my world, and after having been in a few serious relationships, I can say this with confidence. Wayne H., YOU are my UNFORGETTABLE LOVE!


Jacklyn said...

*SIGH* I can't help but think that there are times that I live in a fantasy world as well. It is not ment actual "FANTASY" but, more of dreaming BIG.

I, myself, had a FANTASY that I could be independent and have a college degree. Soon, I realized that this FANTASY can be a reality and IS a reality.

After I graduate, become employed, and independently get settled, I know that I will have room to be able to have that unforgettable love. However, I do not want to keep someone from being part of my life when they are suppose to be there. It will happen when it happens.

I am happy for you and your unforgettable love. It is a joy to see happening. :)

Anonymous said...

Love your post!
I tried to find out who is Diego Marchi and then I found your site.
Unforgettable does not necessarily mean the past. Best of luck, I'll find mine someday by not looking... ;)

Deborah Wilson said...

Beautiful quote!

But exactly who is/was Diego Marchi? I've been searching but I can't find any info. There are a few Diego Marchi's out there but I'm not sure one of them is the correct one.

Anonymous said...

One woman is all three of those things to me.

Brooklyn Richardson said...

I know the love you speak of. And I too feel unordinarily blessed with my husband. Actually we are divorced, if that speaks testimony for anyone struggling in a relationship, there is always hope between true soul mates. We are more in love each day in every way. Life is not a destination its a journey. Enjoy